What Human Design Teaches Us About Parenting With Erin Claire Jones

May 14

You’ve probably heard the phrase “every kid is different.” But what if there was actually a system that could help you understand how they’re different—and how to parent accordingly?

That’s what human design offers. And in our latest episode of What I Wish I Knew, we sat down with expert Erin Claire Jones to talk about how this fascinating tool can make parenting feel less chaotic and more aligned.

Parenting Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All

Human design teaches us that no two people (or parents, or toddlers) are wired the same. What works for your friend’s kid might completely flop for yours—and that’s not a failure. It’s just individuality.

From manifesting generators with endless energy to projectors who thrive with downtime, knowing your child’s design can take some of the guesswork (and guilt) out of parenting. Erin shared how even small shifts—like giving your manifestor kid more autonomy or making space for a projector’s alone time—can completely change your dynamic.

Understanding Yourself Matters Too

Let’s not forget about you. Human design isn’t just a parenting hack; it’s a self-awareness tool. Learning that you’re a projector who needs rest doesn’t make you weak—it gives you permission to stop pushing through burnout.

And if words of affirmation make you feel seen (hello, moms everywhere), that’s not needy—it’s your design. Erin reminded us that the more we understand and advocate for our own needs, the better we can show up for our families.

Real Talk, Real Impact

One of the most powerful parts of our conversation with Erin? The reminder that parenting will keep changing—and so will we. Whether you’re rethinking routines, navigating the nap trap, or trying to figure out your second baby’s verrrry different energy than your first, human design offers a compassionate lens to meet each moment.